We have all heard that mainstream question of “Would you like to have a threesome” at least once in our lifetime. Wether in Never Have I Ever, or directly from a blunt guy on a date. If anything, and with no intended generalization of course, many women don’t understand why are men obsessed with having a threesome.
Furthermore, this area has also been investigated, in an attempt to understand what is happening in men’s minds. With the porn industry raising the expectation for how sex should be like, men are only hoping to find a girl hat would gladly hop into bed with another girl.
Men’s Biggest Fantasy
Undoubtedly one of the most common sexual fantasies amongst men. According to Portnoy’s Complaint, a book written by Philip Roth, he explains why men develop a higher sexual instinct since adolescence.
In fact, he argues that most men are turned on quickly, due to their early sexual beginnings, as well as their imagination. However, the desire of a three-way sex is nourished into men during adulthood, when they start experimenting with different sexual partners.
The Psychological Explanation
Psychology though, explains the phenomenon of threesome as a human instinct. Since we are an egoistic being by nature, we want to get as much as we can. Men tend to often want to be the dominant, and feel superior as it’s what society teaches them about masculinity since a young age.
In addition, the porn industry classifies threesome videos as highly watched videos, and are more successful among men.
What Do Women Think?
On the other hand, most women don’t find threesomes as a big deal. Research found that only 37% of women are willing to do a threesome. However, when asked about sex with two men, positive answers reached 73%.
One of the main reasons women say they are not keen on having a trio with another woman, is a consequence of intimacy. They argue that having sex is not just about the physical intercourse, but also about the connexion between two people, and that can only exist between two people only.
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